I laughed sooooo hard when you described your reaction to the Cas/Dean scene because I can really relate. My husband (who views the show like your husband does) and I are watching and we get to that scene and it starts and my hand starts coming up towards my eyes just in case I need to cover them. I turn to my husband and say "I am feeling really uncomfortable right now...." Fortunately eye covering was not necessary, but it was close. I had to watch it a 2nd time (to be sure I actually heard what I thought I did) because I was afraid to give it my full attention the first time. And yeah, I heard what I thought I heard. Ugg.

And yeah, Destiel ain't canon if it's unrequited. Poor Dean kinda looked shellshocked. I wanna know what he's gonna say to Sam about that last conversation. Snort. I hope next week is Jack's last episode. (You KNOW a show is on its last legs when they add a child - and then they have to age the child up super fast ).

As far as Eileen's car keys - wasn't there a bag lying on the ground along with her phone? I figured the keys were in the purse.

And I figured the 'snapping Sam out of it' stuff referred to the hallucinations Sam had after coming back from hell.