If I try to put myself in Mary's shoes, my soul just...withers and dies.
Obviously, I've never come back from the dead, but I do have two children, and if I woke up tomorrow and they were suddenly in their thirties and emotionally traumatized beyond all recognition, I...I have no idea what I would do, really. But I can't criticize Mary for needing to step away for a bit.
I think it's really important to remember that Mary died. She didn't skip out on her kids, she died and got to be done with all the earth-y nonsense. I know the kids she's missing in heaven aren't real, but I get the sense that people in heaven don't really experience it that way. If we're going to let Sam be traumatized by a hallucinated rape (which yes, I think we should), then we need to let Mary be traumatized by the absence of hallucinated (or angelically synthesized, or whatever) children.
I really loved this plot development, actually, because there wasn't an easy answer, and no one was obviously at fault. It was the sort of thing that might actually happen when you throw together a bunch of wounded people who love each other but also have needs of their own. GIVE ME ALL THAT HEARTBREAK, YO.
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Date: 2016-10-31 03:22 pm (UTC)Obviously, I've never come back from the dead, but I do have two children, and if I woke up tomorrow and they were suddenly in their thirties and emotionally traumatized beyond all recognition, I...I have no idea what I would do, really. But I can't criticize Mary for needing to step away for a bit.
I think it's really important to remember that Mary died. She didn't skip out on her kids, she died and got to be done with all the earth-y nonsense. I know the kids she's missing in heaven aren't real, but I get the sense that people in heaven don't really experience it that way. If we're going to let Sam be traumatized by a hallucinated rape (which yes, I think we should), then we need to let Mary be traumatized by the absence of hallucinated (or angelically synthesized, or whatever) children.
I really loved this plot development, actually, because there wasn't an easy answer, and no one was obviously at fault. It was the sort of thing that might actually happen when you throw together a bunch of wounded people who love each other but also have needs of their own. GIVE ME ALL THAT HEARTBREAK, YO.